Let's pretend it's Ramadan 2019, one whole year from now...12 months...365 days.
Can you think that far ahead?
At times it's hard to even think about today or tomorrow, let alone days, weeks and months from now.
When it's hard to find the energy to just get out of bed and try and put some sort of positive spin on the day ahead, how is it even possible to imagine what life will be like in a year's time?
But just for one minute...let’s try and go there…let's imagine that we've fast forwarded our lives and are able to take a small peek at what our lives might look like...
Have you spent the last year trying your hardest to just get through the day - and your marriage?
Have you wasted precious time reliving the cycle of problems and challenges in your marriage that never seem to go away?
Are you still feeling pessimistic, depressed and unable to enjoy life?
Has your emotional eating gone to another level, so that it now appears almost impossible to get it under control?
Has your iman sunk even lower than it was a year ago - so much so that you feel you've completely lost that connection with Allah that you once had?
Did you manage to find yourself again? Or has the memory of who you were been lost, with no hope or idea of how to get her back?
It’s one whole year from now....
Do you feel strong enough to save or leave your marriage yet?
Are you confident enough to listen to your own inner wisdom and deal with your challenges in a practical and insightful way?
Are you finally able to move past the fears and burden of making such an important decision on saving or leaving your marriage?
Have you figured out the logistical steps you need to take to get you to where you so badly want to be?
Have you been able to be present with your kids - or have you been so emotionally caught up with all of the above, that being emotionally present these days is a rare and fleeting experience.
What if it was one whole year from now and you had actually overcome the fears and excuses that were stopping you from transforming your life for the better?
What if you were able to deal with the challenges in your marriage in a much easier and less stressful way, that didn’t end up leaving you hurt and disappointed in your partner..
What if you had found yourself again and reconnected with everything that was so wonderful about the 'old you'..
What if you were now experiencing the clear mind you'd always wanted to have and were finally enjoying life, having regained the happiness that had been kept from you for so long..
What if you could clearly and undeniably see that Allah has your back and you're able to finally feel that strong connection with The One that never left you, but who you had lost sight of during those troubling times.
Take a deep breath.....and imagine your life like that...at peace and free of tension.
Wouldn't that be amazing?
And isn’t it equally amazing to know that right now, in this present moment of Ramadan 2018, that its 100% possible to have all of that and reach that place in a year's time, or less, insha'Allah.
"Allah does not change a people's condition unless they change what is in their hearts".
It all starts with you. And I'd love to be there with you as you embark on this transformational and beautiful journey.
But you've got to take that first step.
Book in a free breakthrough session with me and let's get you on your way to finally being happy and settled. Because being stuck is no fun at all, not now, not in a year's time, not ever.
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