SACRIFICING YOURSELF IS NOT LOVE
So many women innocently believe that sacrificing themselves for the sake of their children and their family, is real true love.
That their purpose as a mother is fulfilled if they do this...regardless of the fact that in doing this they are sacrificing their own chance of true love, happiness and inner peace.
I used to believe this.
My decision to stay in an abusive, unhappy marriage was based on this.
I never questioned it.
The right thing to do in my mind, was to stay and keep my family together.
And sacrificing my own hopes and dreams was just part and parcel of doing the right thing.
But what happens when we stop and really think...
Is this really the right thing to do?
Is is right to put an end to our own happiness and future dreams?
Is it right to raise our children to believe that this is all they should expect from life?
Is it right to stay in a loveless marriage?
The answer is clearly no.
Self-sacrifice in the long term will undo all the good intentions you have for your family.
Believing that you can have a happy family life, without sacrificing yourself in the process, is what will give you the courage to stand up and make the changes that will strengthen and fulfill your life and in turn those of your children.
Placing real value on your own self will inevitably enrich the lives of all those around you, with no hint of self-sacrifice around.
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