What's the craziest thing you've ever wished would happen, so that it would be easier for you to decide whether or not to leave your marriage?
I'm talking about these kinds of crazy thoughts…
Maybe if they cheated on me, that would definitely give me no option but to leave..
Maybe they’ll get so angry that they’ll hit me, then I'd definitely have to leave..
Or maybe I'll discover some deep dark secret about them that will make it really easy for me to make the decision to leave..
And the king of all crazy thoughts and the one I'm going to own up to having myself? Yep, you guessed it, death.
Because if they somehow just disappeared then that would mean I'd be free to start again, without having had to make the decision myself. The decision would be made for me.
Anyone see a problem with the above?
How about, it's insane?!!
Is making the decision whether or not to leave your marriage really that hard? That we have to contemplate or sometimes even secretly hope for these types of things to happen so that we'll be relieved of the decision making burden? Is this what confusion and fear of regret does to us?
It really doesn't have to be this difficult or confusing.
And it’s why I created my Effortless Relationships coaching programme; to show you how you can easily swap these crazy (and in retrospect very funny) thoughts, for a crystal clear vision of what you really desire from your relationship, and how you can gain the clarity needed to make the right decision for your marriage. No cheating or dying necessary ;-)
The live coaching programme also includes access to my 5-part Effortless Relationships online training course - and you can get the first module completely free, by going right here: