One of my favourite tracks is 'Bag Lady' by Erykah Badu, where she sings of a woman so loaded with bags, that she runs into a whole host of problems in her life.
Bag Lady is breaking her back carrying so much stuff around. It gets in her way to the point where she can't move at the speed she needs to, and when men see her approaching with all those bags - they run a mile.
And the man that doesn't initially run, soon gets completely overwhelmed and overcrowded by all the bags she carries with her. So he'll probably end up running too.
'Pack light'sings Erykah.
Pack light by letting go of your past relationship pain, fears and insecurities, even if you feel it's hard.
You may feel that someone has hurt you so badly in the past that you can't possibly let it go.
But just like Bag Lady, you jeopardise ruining future relationships by overcrowding your mind and your relationship, with so much emotional baggage.
The truth is, it's actually really simple to let go of your past - as simple as letting bags just drop to the floor.
It doesn't involve special mind tricks, or having to 'deal with' your past. It's just a simple, but transformational way of understanding how your mind really works.
And when you get this understanding, you're able to quickly bounce back from break-ups and heartbreak, so that you don't carry any needy energy, drama or emotional baggage around with you in your current relationship - or when you meet new people.
Don't break your back, or your relationship.
Let go of your emotional baggage for good and move forward towards a happier, easier and most definitely lighter marriage.
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